Marriage
is a union between a man and a woman who desire to live together for life in a
happy union. Practically and in the real sense, it takes the two partners to
build a happy home. But experience has shown that, one time or the other,
one of the couple is not contributing his or her best to make the marriage
blissful and successful. At times this oscillates between the two partners.
Hence, now it is your turn to be at the receiving end you must examine your
stand very carefully before you jump out of the marriage.
You need to consider
the following steps:
- What caused the present problems?
- What is your own contribution in the problems?
- What can you do to convince your spouse that you still love him or her in spite of the problem?
In a situation like this:
- You must avoid nagging.
- You should not shift blame on your spouse or your in-laws or anybody around you.
- You should not tell anybody the problem between you and your spouse except a marriage counsellor that can help you to fix the problem. You may connect me through my WhatsApp No: 08033070986
- You must think of the trauma and the
devastating effect of divorce on you, your spouse and most importantly your
children.
- You must humble yourself and beg your spouse to join hand with you in resolving the problems even if he or she is the cause of the problems.
- Above all, take your case to God in prayer and have faith that God will intervene in your affairs and restore your marriage.
My counsel to you is that whatever happen, don't quit your marriage. The problem is temporary and you will overcome it and praise God for it.
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